Nick Haynes Relationship Counselling Cheltenham, Gloucester, Stroud, Cirencester

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Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT), Registered Member MBACP, MNCS(Acc), Relate CC Cert


Hello. Welcome.

I am an experienced couples, relationship and marriage guidance counsellor and I specialize exclusively in this field.

In the past I worked for Relate Oxford for 10 years 2005-2015 as well as being in private practice for the last 8 years. In addition I offer supervision for colleagues who see couples in their practice.

I have recently moved to Gloucestershire and am offering relationship and couple counselling in both Cheltenham and Stroud during the day and evening.


"Are you having a difficult time together and thinking about getting some support for your relationship?

Whatever the situation, it can understandably often feel daunting or challenging to come along and talk to a complete stranger about something as important and personal as your relationship.

You may anticipate and be worried about hearing another round from your partner or maybe even the counsellor of how you are failing and getting it wrong. Or perhaps you are trying to get your partner's attention to find out whether you still matter and are important to them.

It could be neither of you are feeling very emotionally engaged together currently.

Either way my guess is that you both may need some support and do not know how to fix it on your own.

The reassuring news is that there has been a tremendous advance through science and research in our understanding of the issues that are at the core of all couple problems and most importantly how to resolve them.

This I do in a way that is warm, supportive and helps you both feel heard, understood and entitled to your experience. However it is also powerful and encouraging and helps you both know how to get out of the destructive pattern and cycle you have been caught in together."


To find out more about couple counselling in Cheltenham and Stroud please Call me on 07890 850563 or e-mail me at n.haynes54@gmail.com

As a couples counsellor I have a wide experience of the types of difficulties that may be triggering problems in your relationship.

These can include:

  • Arguments,fights and tension
  • Inappropriate fighting such as pushing, hitting, swearing directly, throwing things.
  • Affairs - feeling of betrayal and loss of trust, guilt
  • Communication issues - we can't or don't talk anymore
  • Lack of intimacy and connection
  • Feeling emotionally disconnected with your partner
  • Sexual relationship and loss of or change in interest
  • Not feeling wanted or loved by your partner
  • Aspergers Syndrome in relationships
  • Feelings for your partner have changed
  • Not sure about the future together
  • If you have young children, not spending enough quality time as a couple
  • Anxiety and insecurity
  • Differences over money
  • If Internet pornography addiction is affecting your relationship together

    This is by no means a comprehensive list but may include some of the issues that you are experiencing in your relationship.

    If you would like to consider coming for counselling our first meeting is an assessment session. It will give you an opportunity to decide if you want more sessions and does not commit you to counselling.

    For an appointment please Call 07890 850563 or e-mail me at n.haynes54@gmail.com


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